How my grandparents inspired me | Discover

Throughout the years, Hannah always loved conversations with her Granny and Grandad – whether in person, over the phone, or through handwritten letters.

Since losing her grandparents, Hannah has been eager to make sure no older person is left without someone to talk to. She has generously supported Age UK’s work to help make this a reality, by running the Leeds Abbey Dash multiple times and volunteering to be part of the Age UK Telephone Friendship Service.

Keeping in contact

“Granny and Grandad were always there,” says Hannah. “They met as teenagers, got married when Granny was 19, and stayed together forever. They lived in the same house their entire lives. Even now, whenever I see their old house, I think of all the happy times I had with them there.”

Although university and jobs led to her moving further away in adulthood, Hannah wasn’t going to let distance stand in the way of staying in touch with her grandparents. “All of my family is based in the north, so when I moved to Bristol for a while, I was much further away than anyone else,” Hannah explains. “My life at that time was going at 100mph, and I found that when I chatted to Granny and Grandad on the phone it could be quite overwhelming for them to keep up with what I was telling them. So, I decided to start writing to them instead. I really felt like I was talking to them as I was writing, and it meant that they could go back to letters if they wanted to – or read a bit at a time.”

It was this regular communication with her grandparents that would later inspire Hannah to join the Age UK Telephone Friendship Service. “I thought it’d be nice to continue,” Hannah says. “I can also remember seeing statistics from Age UK during the pandemic lockdowns about how many older people were feeling lonely during that time. It made me think of my Granny and Grandad. Grandad died first and Granny was living by herself for about seven years. When I thought about someone like my Granny having no one to talk to, I decided to sign up as a volunteer.

“I also thought it would be nice to connect with someone older – someone who might be of the same generation as my grandparents, and who might remind me of them.”